After a messy breakup, getting back into the dating pool can be tough. I know…but not since the days when we had dating apps. Which somehow seems to make it harder, I swear.
There’s this woman who was tired of going back and forth after going back to apps…She found out she’d be texting one or more guys…and after days or weeks of getting to know each other, they didn’t would ever meet! And even if they did, she often found that there was no chemistry when they met.
Part of the problem was that she felt like when you text or message someone for so long, you start to assume things about them and their personality. And then when you actually meet, something isn’t what you thought it would be.
So she started asking guys for “LAST MINUTE DATES” and she realized that was the way to go!!! And it’s not as horrible as it sounds.
She found that by taking the “last minute” approach, she met twice as many guys doing this.
Once she corresponded with someone and went through their profile, she would then message them… “Hey there, you look cute! Want to grab a drink tonight and see if there’s any interest in what we were texting for weeks lol?”
I love this! I am a no BS type personality, either we will click or it will never work. If I was doing the dating apps thing these days, I would definitely take this route!
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